about

my name is nebula
pronouns are they/them/theirs
i am 31
queer & nonbinary & autistic & adhd
whenever i like things i have to learn how to make them. this leads to a lot of ongoing projects. i am currently studying spanish and mandarin and playing with obsidian + slowly working through several to-read lists
some of my top Topics(tm) include gender studies, trans legal rights, neuroqueer theory, relationships, and how i don't believe in the platonic/romantic binary. i also don't believe that gender or sexual (or romantic etc.) orientation is immutable, static, fixed forever. (i don't mean that people can change their orientations at will, but that identities and orientations can change over time.)
i also think you should be able to trans your gender for fun, and the government shouldn't have any say in your gender.
i believe in being anti-racist and in prison abolition & in defunding the police
here's a rec for why i don't super like x gender markers (but in our current world, without some things changed, i can understand why they may be necessary for some people - no judgment at all)
i don't like being categorized. i will sometimes play with various labels but i don't ultimately identify with them. except my gender is actually galaxy
my favorite color is purple gradient to pink